4.9- Parents learn to give children their independence
4.9- Parents learn to give children their independence and sometimes the children and the parents learn through suffering. You cannot bully your children into spiritual maturity. Mary and Joseph left Jesus to some freedom at age twelve. When they found Jesus Mary said, "Why did you do this to us." A father gives freedom to learn the hard way and then loves, welcomes and supports the child's spiritual and physical recovery. As an adult all of my close friends listen to me. Watch out for me. Love me. Forgive me. Warn me and appeal to me to be good to myself. They do not try to run my life and bully me into better choices. It doesn't work. God gives free will choice and so must we. Any so called "religion" that does not give freedom for free will choice in walking with God is not "true religion". There things that are always wrong in all cultures, but there are other things that are areas of opinion. Jesus had an opinion at tewlve that he should s...