7.15- Great marriage is not just about finding the right person.

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Great marriage is not just about finding the right person. It not just about being the right person. It is about these plus a partnership with your best friend, God.
My wife did not sleep the night before we moved out of the home where we had lived for 30 years. 2013, July 9, 10 merged into a 48 hour day for her.
Never afraid to have long deep discussions with me. Saturday, 1988, we spoke to each other and with each other for 5 hours straight according to her journal.
What patience she had to try to understand me and help me the best she could. I spoke to a marriage counselor who has been doing effective work with couples who told me improvement was about better and deeper listening skills.
1 Corinthians 13

13 If I speak with the tongues of mankind and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and know all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 And if I give away all my possessions to charity, and if I surrender my body so that I may [a]glory, but do not have love, it does me no good.

4 Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous; love does not brag, it is not arrogant. 5 It does not act disgracefully, it does not seek its own benefit; it is not provoked, does not keep an account of a wrong suffered, 6 it does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 it [b]keeps every confidence, it believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never fails; but if there are gifts of [c]prophecy, they will be done away with; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away with. 9 For we know in part and prophesy in part; 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away with. 11 When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I [d]became a man, I did away with childish things. 12 For now we see in a mirror [e]dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully, just as I also have been fully known. 13 But now faith, hope, and love remain, these three; but the [f]greatest of these is love.



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