5.28- What is the best response when someone loses a beloved spouse or child?

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What is the best response when someone loses a beloved spouse or child? Prayer. Silence. Presence. Service. More silence. No shallow Job's friends words. Silence. Prayer. Sensitivity. Space and grace.

Job 2

11 When Job’s three friends, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite and Zophar the Naamathite, heard about all the troubles that had come upon him, they set out from their homes and met together by agreement to go and sympathize with him and comfort him. 12 When they saw him from a distance, they could hardly recognize him; they began to weep aloud, and they tore their robes and sprinkled dust on their heads. 13 Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and seven nights. No one said a word to him, because they saw how great his suffering was.

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